by Carolyn Thomas ♥ @HeartSisters ♥ September 30, 2018
Imagine the reaction from Emergency Department staff to the woman I met at my Mayo Clinic training, the one who had been sent home from Emergency three days in a row despite her complaints of increasingly distressing cardiac symptoms. Each time she arrived there, she clearly declared the following to the Emergency physician, who continued to repeatedly dismiss her concerns:
“I don’t care what you say. SOMETHING is wrong with me!”
What a royal pain in the ass, staff may have muttered about her, sotto voce.
On her third visit, the physician recommended anti-anxiety medications. But on the fourth visit, on that fourth day, she was taken directly from the E.R. to the O.R. to undergo emergency coronary bypass surgery. Continue reading “Is ‘being nice’ hurting women?”
by Carolyn Thomas ♥ @HeartSisters
When you get together with your girlfriends, are there any conversation topics that you believe are not open for discussion? Any that are off-limits? Any personal stories that you think are, well, just too personal to talk about to those women closest to you?
No, me neither.
Nowhere is this communication openness more visible than with our health. We generally like to share our medical news, updates on that medical news, and our opinions about each others’ medical news. Health topics appear increasingly popular as we age (and thus have way more medical news to discuss). It’s what my friend Dave likes to call “the organ recital”. But when it comes to serious health conditions, do you ever wonder if all that sharing is necessarily a good thing? Continue reading “I don’t want to talk about it…”