Depressed? Who, me? Myths and facts about depression after a heart attack

by Carolyn Thomas   ♥  @HeartSisters

I have a friend who has a friend who’s been depressed, off and on, for years. During that time, my friend and I have done our fair share of eye-rolling whenever the subject of this person’s depression came up. We wondered why she just couldn’t pull up her socks and quit all this self-absorbed moping around.

Neither my friend nor I had ever had one nanosecond of actually experiencing clinical depression ourselves – which, of course, didn’t stop us from passing judgement.  Continue reading “Depressed? Who, me? Myths and facts about depression after a heart attack”

Not just for soldiers anymore: PTSD in heart patients

by Carolyn Thomas   ♥  @HeartSisters

When I was at my WomenHeart Science & Leadership training at Mayo Clinic, we watched a short film about women and heart disease. A 40-something woman onscreen told the interviewer that ever since her heart attack had happened, she was afraid to go to sleep every night, because now she wasn’t sure that she would ever wake up.

I began to weep when I heard her say this.
Continue reading “Not just for soldiers anymore: PTSD in heart patients”

Why are heart patients who smoke leaving hospital still smoking?

by Carolyn Thomas    ♥   @HeartSisters

If you ever needed a swift smack upside the head to convince you to finally stop smoking once and for all, you’d think that a heart attack would do it.

Hospitalized survivors, shocked and traumatized, are already lying there in the cardiac ward unable to light up, and certainly prohibited from smoking anywhere inside the hospital buildings. In my town, smoking is banned on all hospital grounds, thus requiring a long walk clear across the street to huddle near the bus stop – if the patient is mobile enough – with the attractive hospital gown flapping in the wind behind. These smokers are already well underway, whether they’d planned it or not, to quitting cold turkey. So why are they starting up again by the time they get home?

What many non-smokers may not understand about this question is that smokers generally LOVE their smokes. They love the longstanding associations between a cigarette and their daily routines. They love that first early morning cigarette. Or coffee breaks with workmates. On the phone. At parties. That last smoke of the day out on a quiet porch.

Smokers on the cardiac ward already know that smoking is likely what landed them in that cardiac ward in the first place. Just in case, here’s why smoking is so damaging to the heart: Continue reading “Why are heart patients who smoke leaving hospital still smoking?”

Why you should not ask: “How are you feeling today?”

I’m borrowing this thoughtful and thought-provoking essay for you today because it will strike a chord for those who have been diagnosed with a chronic illness – and may help to surprise and enlighten those who haven’t.

It’s called “Never ask ‘How are you feeling today?'” by Janet Miserandino, whose daughter Christine is the founder of one of my favourite websites, But You Don’t Look Sick? Janet writes:

“It’s taken me a long time to get out of the automatic habit of saying, ‘How are you?’ when I see someone. That question would be all right to ask most healthy people, because the spontaneous response of ‘Fine!’ would be appropriate. Continue reading “Why you should not ask: “How are you feeling today?””