Way back in 1847, the American Medical Association panel on ethics decreed that “the patient should obey the physician.”
There may very well be physicians today – in the era of empowered patients and patient-centred care and those darned Medical Googlers – who glance nostalgically backwards at those good old days.
Let’s consider, for example, the simple clinical interaction of prescribing medication. If you reliably take the daily meds that your doctor has prescribed for your high blood pressure, you’ll feel fine. But if you stop taking your medication, you’ll still feel fine. At least, until you suffer a stroke or heart attack or any number of consequences that have been linked to untreated hypertension.
Those who do obediently take their meds are what doctors call “compliant”. And, oh. Have I mentioned how much many patients like me hate that word?


Thus, a circle that began with me sitting in that 2008 training audience of 45 women (ages 31-71, all of us heart patients) was completed on my second trip as I became one of the presenters onstage – this time in front of an audience of cardiologists! – at a Mayo Clinic medical conference on Heart Disease in Women (Thank you Drs. Hayes, Mulvagh and Gulati for your persistent invitations!) But long before I took the stage that weekend, I’d been invited to come to Rochester a day earlier to meet with some pretty amazing Mayo staff. 
