Patients, twisted thinking and cognitive distortion

.                         .      My granddaughter Everly Rose – and her Baba’s newly bald head!
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The freshly-diagnosed patient has plenty of opportunity to start thinking thoughts that are bizarre and often frightening. Any new life-altering medical condition (like the misdiagnosed widow-maker heart attack I survived back in 2008) can throw us off-balance, both physically and emotionally.

And hearing yet another new diagnosis will likely feel worse than any others.  We rarely if ever see it coming. I’ve been learning this first-hand ever since April 1st when I was diagnosed (surprise!) with a malignant tumor in my right breast.

Learning about that new diagnosis (invasive ductal carcinoma) felt utterly surreal at first – mostly because cancer is so different from other diagnoses in two important ways:

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What I wish I knew back then: “Twisted thinking vs. the new heart patient”

by Carolyn Thomas   ♥   @HeartSisters

The freshly-diagnosed heart patient has plenty of opportunity to start thinking thoughts that are new, bizarre and often frightening. Any life-altering medical condition can throw us off-balance emotionally, but after a cardiac diagnosis, even the tiniest twinge of new chest pain can paralyze us. Is this something? Is it nothing? Should I call 911 again? As Australian cardiac psychologist (and more importantly, a heart patient himself) Len Gould likes to say: “Before a heart attack, every twinge is just indigestion. After a heart attack, every twinge is another heart attack!”

It’s only much later when we can truly reflect on how exhausting this twisted thinking is. Before they settle in too comfortably, let’s try to untwist the most common of these responses.  .       Continue reading “What I wish I knew back then: “Twisted thinking vs. the new heart patient””