‘Heart Attack & Soul’: the perfect gift for the heart attack survivor

1 May

“A heart attack is a deeply wounding event.” So starts Dr. Stephen Parker‘s new book called Heart Attack & Soul: In the Labyrinth of Healing.

The Alaskan cardiac psychologisthas a unique perspective: he is also a heart attack survivor himself. His words will ring true for both heart patients and their families. It’s the story – both in images and words – about the journey of healing after his own 2005 heart attack. He describes how, “in desperation from depression”, he began drawing and painting as he wrestled with how to express how the heart attack had affected him.

Although, amazingly, he had no previous experience making art, his impressive drawings morphed into a blog in which he spent 40 days reviewing the paintings and writing a daily observation. The blog paintings and comments became a well-praised public art exhibit, and that has now at last become a book. 

New York critic Natalie Walsh wrote this about Dr. Steve’s first art show:

“As you take in the words and the simple yet evocative drawings, you come to appreciate what Parker has gone through. You can’t help but relate his life experiences to emotional experiences of your own.

“It is not just a recounting of experiences and struggles. It is reflective, deeply personal and peppered with humor.”

Of the short two-page chapters in the book – like ‘Betrayal Of The Body’ or ‘High Anxiety’ – one of my favourites is called ‘Emotions Of The Wounded Heart’, accompanied by his intensely colour-streaked abstract of a human heart. He outlines, for example, what he calls these “swirling emotions” experienced after surviving his heart attack:

“Relief at survival — disbelief and anger that it happened — grief for everything that has and will be lost — gratitude to those who helped — extreme vulnerability in a previously safe world — fear of what the future might bring.”

When I first read these words (on his original blog), it was not long after surviving my own heart attack. It was the first time I’d found an itemized list of the very emotions that had overwhelmed me since being discharged from hospital.

Dr. Stephen Parker’s book is unique among useful heart resources in that he incorporates his broad professional background as a Jungian psychotherapist to help inform his own emotional, mental and spiritual journey as a vulnerable heart patient. This dual personal/professional perspective is an impossibly rare feature compared to other books that focus primarily on just the physical effects of heart disease, most written by “experts” who have never had to walk the talk themselves.

I love this book! And I believe Heart Attack & Soul would make an immensely helpful gift, both for newly diagnosed heart patients and for those who love them.

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4 Responses to “‘Heart Attack & Soul’: the perfect gift for the heart attack survivor”

  1. CABGx4 November 8, 2012 at 4:56 pm #

    I was fortunate enough to be in the audience for Dr. Steve’s talk in Victoria last week. His message on mental health issues surrounding a devastating diagnosis like heart attack was profound especially to those of us living with a heart condition. I appreciated his candor and openness in disclosing his own personal struggles with depression, and it made it easier for my wife and me to talk more openly on the drive home than we have in the years since my open heart surgery. Thanks Carolyn for arranging this talk – I recommend his book and his blog to ALL heart patients.

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  2. D.R.W. June 12, 2011 at 10:43 pm #

    This does sound like a good gift idea for a recently diagnosed heart patient. We want to bring a thoughtful gift but often aren’t sure what on earth to get. This book however sounds like a wise recommendation. Thanks.

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  3. Zipper Club May 4, 2011 at 7:38 am #

    We pay more attention to information when it actually comes from somebody who has had firsthand experience. I look forward to reading this book written from a survivors perspective.

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  4. Andrew L.W. May 2, 2011 at 6:57 am #

    This is perfect timing for me to learn about Dr. Steve’s book. My sister has just had open heart surgery and our whole family is reeling with shock and helplessness. Surely this book, written by a real-life survivor, will be a useful resource for her, I plan to get a copy for her. THX, Carolyn, I just found your excellent website last night and am also sending her this link.

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