Resume As a heart attack survivor with an accordion file of ongoing complications, I’ve become a frequent flyer with my cardiologist, my longtime family physician, related specialists, the Pain Clinic, our local hospital, and in countless diagnostic labs. Many cardiac procedures involve stripping to the waist and putting on that flimsy paper gown. In the case of a stress echocardiogram, for example, it means having the opening at the front instead of the back to allow 12 EKG leads to be attached to your bare torso during the test.
Not a big deal for male patients, but let me assure you – this can be a very big deal for many women.
The last time I had a stress echo done, the experience was so profoundly upsetting that I not only filed a formal complaint to the departmental manager, but I created for her something I called Carolyn’s Top Ten Tips on How to Treat Your Patients.
It wasn’t the specific diagnostic procedure itself that was so upsetting that day. It was the appallingly poor social skills of the two attending technicians in the room.
For example, when I entered the echo lab, one of the two techs present sat at a corner desk. He did not look up at me when I walked in, did not say hello, did not introduce himself. Was he the tech? Was he the doc? Was he the janitor?
As I later wrote to his manager:
“It’s not so much that these two people were openly rude – but it was their insufferable lack of people skills that pushed me over the edge. No introductions, no eye contact, no consideration of how awkward this test can be, no explanation of the test procedures or even the flimsiest effort at polite conversation.
“And by the way, next time I’m ordered to strip to the waist in front of a strange man, he’d better buy me dinner first.”
It has occurred to me during this and a few needlessly stressful medical encounters like it that the physicians, nurses and technicians who seem least likely to act like they give a damn may be the very staff who themselves are struggling with job burnout.
Burnout has been widely described as emotional exhaustion. The most conscientious people-helpers appear to be most vulnerable to burnout. Researchers like Maslach, Freudenberger and others dating as far back as 1977 gave the name ‘burnout’ to the special stressors associated with social and interpersonal pressures.
Dr. Arch Hart, who coined the term ‘compassion fatigue’, says burnout may include:
- demoralization (belief you are no longer effective)
- depersonalization (treating yourself and others in an impersonal way)
- detachment (withdrawing from responsibilities)
- distancing (avoidance of social and interpersonal contacts)
- defeatism (‘why bother?’)
Dr. Christina Maslach has described burnout as “a state of physical, emotional and mental exhaustion marked by physical depletion, chronic fatigue and negative attitudes towards work, life and other people.”
She adds the following signs that you may be struggling with burnout:
- decreased energy – ‘keeping up the speed’ becomes increasingly difficult
- feeling of failure in your vocation
- reduced sense of reward in return for pouring so much of self into the job
- a sense of helplessness and inability to see a way out of your problems
- cynicism and negativism about self, others, work and the world in general
It was that last sign that should have waved a red flag (or at least a couple of EKG leads) in front of my face.
If a health care provider is feeling “cynical and negative about self, others, work and the world in general”, this person may no longer be capable of exhibiting even basic common courtesy or consideration about a patient’s potential discomfort or embarrassment during a clinical procedure.
Health care research on physician burnout by Dr. Evan Falchuk found:
“On days when doctors felt positive moods, they spoke more to patients, wrote fewer prescriptions, ordered fewer tests, and issued fewer referrals.
“However, when doctors were in a negative mood, they did the opposite.”
I was already feeling anxious and worried about this last stress echocardiogram when I walked into the echo lab.
Earth to hospital and clinic staff: There is no such thing as a “routine” test for heart attack survivors.
We are there because something bad has happened to our heart, or our doctors suspect that something bad will happen. Period.
When I was casually told to strip to the waist by that stranger in the corner, neither he nor his colleague offered me a place to change or to leave my clothing. So I slowly pulled off my sweater and bra and clutched them tightly to cover up a bit while the two techs sat in bored silence, waiting for me to hurry up. One motioned to a chair in the far corner for me to place my belongings, and tossed me a paper gown.
Both could not possibly have demonstrated less respect for modesty or dignity even if they had deliberately set out to embarrass me. Afterwards, I described my impressions to their manager:
“To them, I was merely their 1 o’clock appointment, the obstacle between them and their next coffee break, just a piece of meat on a slab – but worse, an invisible piece of meat.”
In fact, it was this odd and inappropriate behavior of both these techs that first made me think: “Something is very wrong with you people!”
Health care providers suffering from emotional burnout could easily treat other human beings the way I was treated that day. Even offering a cursory “Hello, my name is…” apparently required too much effort of them. They simply could not care less.
I was unable to identify this at the time, but when I read Dr. Hart’s list of burnout symptoms, a number of them leaped out at me to describe my stress echo techs: depersonalization (treating yourself and others in an impersonal way), detachment (withdrawing from responsibilities), and distancing (avoidance of social and interpersonal contacts). Check. Check. And check. See also: When Patients are Seen as “The Enemy”
The most damaging part of this encounter was not the procedure itself. I’ve had many other far more potentially embarrassing medical procedures (sigmoidoscopy, colonoscopy, CT colonography, cystoscopy, not to mention that I’ve delivered two babies the old-fashioned way) but none left me feeling as distressed as I felt during and after that stress echo.
Why? It just happened that the health care professionals who administered those other privacy-invading procedures had been unfailingly kind, gentle, considerate, approachable, careful to explain what was happening, and solicitous of how I was doing throughout.
The good news: after receiving my complaint – tellingly, the second in the same week about the same people! – the cardiology departmental manager told me she felt quite alarmed to hear this about her employees. She not only spoke to the people involved, but then read my Top 10 Tips On How To Treat Your Patients aloud to all her staff at their next meeting.
And since publishing the list here, I’ve heard from a number of Heart Sisters readers that it’s now been posted on a number of hospital staff room bulletin boards across North America. You can read the list here at “An Open Letter To All Hospital Staff”.
This was originally a guest column published March 26, 2011 on Dr. Joel Sherman‘s patient privacy and modesty blog – in which I was referred to by one of his readers as a “prude” who needed to “grow up”.
When patients are seen as “The Enemy”
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8 thoughts on “Patient privacy, modesty, and staff burnout”
i think we are letting them off the hook with the excuse of burnout… I think first, health employees simply are not trained in bedside manner and compassion. Despite what they think, some folks today are still very modest. That needs to be respected not looked down on.
Two, they need to know ways to protect a person’s modesty and dignity. I think it is BS that you can’t keep your bra on during a stress test….especially if you are big… it is very uncomfortable to do a stress test without support, and then test results also can be inconclusive…. So say a sports bra at least may actually help all the way around. I wish that all techs would have to undergo the test themselves…. it may help some develop some compassion but maybe not if they are already desensitized to undressed patients and it’s just a medical situation and because they do so many a day, it’s routine for them.
They need to be trained and told repeatedly folks going thru these so-called routine tests are doing so for serious reasons, and have fear and anxiety. They are not routine for us.
But I really related, and actually refuse some tests because i just plain think they are unnecessary and I will not subject myself to them. Period.
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Hello Janet – I once wrote an entire article here trying to convince healthcare professionals that, just because today is a routine day at the office for YOU, it’s more likely an important circled date on the calendar for your patients that may have been filling them with worry and dread for a long time!
You brought up a good point about the importance of training. In the story I told of the two stress echo techs, the response from their boss to my initial complaint was initially “Oh, but he’s usually pretty good!” But how would she even know this (unless she sits and watches how he treats his patients during every appointment?)
So sometimes it might be that they weren’t trained about the importance of respect and kindness from Day One, or that they were trained and they used to be considerate, but are now burned out and just stopped caring…
Either option requires patients to SPEAK UP if they are treated disrespectfully – to the staffer personally or to the staffer’s boss, or both! I know that my decision to complain did affect how future patients will be treated in that department…
I have been in the health care field for 30 years; 23 of them as an Intensive Care Registered Nurse with lots of initials after my name that really impress no one 😉
I may have that “old school” etiquette, as the newbies run around with training that seems to have focused more on data than humanity, but I am a firm believer in giving every patient, family member and medical team member my eye contact and attention early in the interaction.
This is critically valuable in establishing the relationship.
There are no words that can replace “I will be your nurse tonight. My name is Elle” (saying my name secondly rarely requires a repeat).
You can literally see and feel some tension relax when the patient/client is assured of who you are and what your role is in the plan of care without them having to ask.
And a gentle touch goes far beyond words.
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Thanks so much for sharing your unique perspective here, Elle. I’ve been one of those patients who has felt my tension relax when I feel like I’m being well cared for.
Thx so much, always learn a lot from Heart Sisters posts.
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I believe not all who are like them. I have actually experienced the same thing, but when I transferred to a different health care facility, they were nice, approachable and accommodating.
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I agree 100%. I think this kind of disregard for common courtesy is rampant in the healthcare system. I just spent a week in hospital where some doctors and nurses entered my room, no eye contact, no introductions, lifting my hospital gown for inspection – without saying ONE WORD to me! Yet no matter how disrespectful doctors, nurses or lab employees are, vulnerable patients feel reluctant to complain directly for fear of even worse care. THANK YOU for writing this.
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Your experience seems similar to mine. I too suspected that there was something “wrong” with my techs because of the way I was treated. It turned the test into an anxious nightmare. Unacceptable!
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