A crown, a crowd and a standing ovation

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by Carolyn Thomas   ❤️   Heart Sisters (on Blue Sky)

Last week, I watched a heart patient from Winnipeg named Jackie Ratz* get a standing ovation at a cardiology conference.

I wasn’t at the 2-day Canadian Women’s Heart Health Summit in person, but I participated via Zoom (in my jammies, watching Jackie onstage in Ottawa over my second cup of coffee here on the beautiful west coast of Canada).  I can tell you that the impressive audience response to Jackie’s presentation rarely – if ever – would have happened to patients a decade or so ago (mostly because few patients then were invited to speak onstage to an audience of physicians). With her kind permission, I’m sharing Jackie’s script from her Canadian Women’s Heart Health Summit presentation called “I WEAR A CROWN” (and a 2024 video of this presentation at the end of this post).

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In medicine, the opposite of kindness is not cruelty. It’s dismissal.

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by Carolyn Thomas   ❤️   Heart Sisters (on Blue Sky)

When I recall moments of kindness I’ve encountered in my hospital experiences, two stand out. Both moments happened on May 6th, 2008 when I was finally admitted for what doctors call a “widow maker” heart attack. That was when the Emergency physician called in a cardiologist (something the Emerg doc two weeks earlier hadn’t done despite my alarming textbook  symptoms of central chest pain, nausea, sweating and pain down my left arm). On that awful earlier morning, a  man with the letters M.D. after his name told me clearly: “You’re in the right demographic for acid reflux!”  before sending me away.
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Just because I can lift it, doesn’t mean it’s not heavy

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by Carolyn Thomas   ❤️   Heart Sisters (on Blue Sky)

During a recent visit, Ben and Paula (my son and daughter-in-law) asked what kind of family birthday celebration I would like this weekend. My answer is always a non-answer, really. “All I want for my birthday is time spent with my kids and grandkids!”   We agreed on a backyard barbecue in Ben and Paula’s beautiful garden – and it was a perfect springtime distraction from what’s been happening for the past month around here.
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The “not wonderful” new diagnosis I didn’t see coming

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by Carolyn Thomas   ❤️   Heart Sisters (on Blue Sky)

If you’re me, and you live with a medical condition as serious as heart disease (which is women’s #1 killer worldwide, by the way), you may start believing that this is it. This will be the cause of death listed in your obituary some day. This is the diagnosis that kick-started  your tests, medical procedures, follow-up appointments, more tests, scary symptoms, prescription cardiac meds you’ll take for the rest of your life, and writing these Sunday morning Heart Sisters articles.

But as the saying goes, “Life is what happens when we’re busy making other plans.”  And last month, LIFE happened to me. . .
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